Little death (la petite mort):
Some women do indeed pass right out, the 'little death' of French
poetry. Men occasionally do the same. The experience is not
unpleasant, but it can scare an inexperienced partner cold. A friend
of ours had this happen with the first girl he ever slept with. On
recovery she explained, "I am awfully sorry, but I always do that." By
then he had called the police and an ambulance. So there is no cause
for alarm, any more than over the yells, convulsions, hysterical
laughter, or sobbing, or any of the other quite unexpected reactions
that go along with complete orgasm in some people. By contrast others
simply shut their eyes, but enjoy it no less. Sound and fury can be a
flattering testimony to a partners skills, but a fallacious one,
because they don't depend on the intensity of feeling, nor it upon them.
-- The Joy of Sex
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